Well, the CNC Depot spindles are 23.5lbs according to their website and that is what is used on the Stepcraft Q series machines like mine. I talked to them (Stepcraft) and they said probably 35 lbs without doing anything to counter the weight of the spindle. A couple of small air cylinders on either side with a regulated air supply would be an easy way to counter balance the spindle, but I was trying to keep things simple.
Do you have a link to the eBay seller for yours, I quickly looked on eBay and didn't come across anything.