There is something funny about most people. They tell you what they think you want or need, not what you are asking for. I noticed it last Christmas with my family and my then fiance (now wife) they asked her for a list of items that she might like and they didnt get her a single one. It wasn't the cost of any of these items, it was just they felt the other items were more important than what she wanted. Throughout the year, I have been watching and it has been disheartening to say the least about how people try to impress themselves upon you.
You tell a person something and they come back at you saying not to do it for the very reasons you are. Maybe what people need is not stuff and things but something a little more intangible; something that is quite a bit harder to give. That something is perspective.
What is everyone's thoughts. Agree? Disagree? Neutral?