I found some intructions from some website that are different from the can and I am trying them. So far so good.
You put on a lot and let it soak in making sure the wood stays wet. Then repeat once two days later. Two days after than wet sand it with 500 grit, which is where I am at right now. THen repeat at a higher grit after two days drying time, and again if you want.
The wet sand at 500 does seem to make it an even smoother baby bottom feel. I will try at 600 tomorrow. There are some very large poers that are hard to fill so hopefully the slurry can leave a lasting filler.