If clamping prevents the crack until the clamp is removed; do that then remove the screws and run your pilot drill in to open the hole, remove the clamps and assemble.
If clamping prevents the crack until the clamp is removed; do that then remove the screws and run your pilot drill in to open the hole, remove the clamps and assemble.
I put CA on the end grain and got no splits! On the first table all 4 split. I think we have a winner.
The CA ran over a bit and stained the wood, but after a few hours it was the same color as the wood with varnish, so it is invisible.
Thanks to everyone for your help, but especially whoever suggested the CA.