This is going to sound odd......
My bride is a regular hand lotion user, applying it multiple time a day. On the up side she has beautiful hands and it keeps them soft. On the down side it's causing finish damage to some of our furniture. She sits on the bed in front of the window to apply cosmetics and steadies herself by placing her hand on the footboard. The finish in that location is now as soft as beeswax and can be scraped off with a thumbnail. The same is true at our kitchen table where she rests her hands in front of her usual spot. Both locations are oak (bed = QSWO, table = FSRO) with what I believe to be a poly finish.
Any tips on repairing these areas? Any tips on what I might use going forward that won't be attacked by hand lotion residue?