Yeah, horribly scary story for sure. My gosh, I was wincing reading the whole thing. I think I have seen the video you mention of the guy being pulled into the lathe. Horrific thought. Man you were lucky. When I envisioned the bar coming out of the tailstock and bending I imagined it whipping and beating you to death after it ripped your hands/arms off... good lord. Glad your ok. Ive avoided any shop incidents but it only takes a split second and a momentary laps of judgment than anyone can have happen...
Good your on the mend and intact.