Another thread discussed using a recess and how to make it.
This is what I use. I ground this shape on an old tool. It's held horizontally and used as a scraper so I angled the cutting edges back on all three sides for a relief angle. The cutting edge is small enough that it won't catch. The working end is angled away from the axis of the shaft to get in close to the center even when the blank is supported by the tailstock.
Dovetail_A.jpg
Dovetail_B.jpg
I ground this tool with a square-edged CBN wheel. This works extremely well, far easier to use than my previous methods.
The dovetail angle in my quick sketch might not look like enough but it is - it's drawn about 7-deg off perpendicular to the surface but I never measured the dovetail angle I cut. You don't want too great an angle or the sides of the jaws can bear against the weak area at the surface of the wood instead gripping of deep inside the dovetail where the wood is strong. (It's actually better to use an un-dovetailed recess such as from a Forstner bit than angle the dovetail even a little bit too much.)
I typically make the dovetail 1/8" to 3/16" deep depending on the size of the piece and the wood, sometimes smaller, 1/16" or so.
JKJ