This question has probably been asked and answered before, so feel free to post links in your reply. I've googled it a good deal and haven't landed on a discussion that nails it for me, yet.

So which finish is better for tabletops that will be in regular homes, being used for meals, kids homework and so on?
- precat lacquer or water-based poly (acrylic)?

I have reasonable spraying skills with lacquer, and have brushed on plenty of water-based poly. If I end up going with the "poly" for this next batch of tables I will consider spraying it, if that influences your advice. I've used Zar exclusively over the years.

My concern is that I've read that hot plates and alcohol spills can affect the lacquer. Is this so?

Which is more durable to wear?

I should add that I'm pretty useless with wipe on poly, never seem to get a nice surface, and I don't feel these tables are appropriate (the time investment) for the hand rubbed poly/oil finish I use on other furniture.

thanks, Mark