The amount I take off depends on the wood, but most of the time it's around 3/32" or so per pass. If I'm milling large pieces with a lot of bow and/or twist I'll drop the table and take 1/4" per pass. That's on my bigger jointer though, I have a smaller 8" thats used for light passes and usually just skims off 1/32" or less per pass. Both are straight knife machines and both require very little effort to push wood through as long as the tables are kept waxed. I have heard and believe to be true that the carbide insert heads require more power compared to their straight HSS knife counterparts. That could be at least a part of what your seeing.
good luck,
JeffD