I'm not entering the Chinese vs Western debate.
The answer to the original question is: Do you want to be cheap or do you want to be reasonable? If you want to be cheap, go on eBay and buy the cheap "40w" laser. It will cut 1/8" material. The machine is universally understood to be a piece of crap, but it will still do the job, sometimes. If you want to be reasonable, you'll buy a 50-60W small stand alone Chinese laser or a used 25-35W Western machine. It will cost you $3-5k but that's what it costs to get the job done in a reasonable fashion. You'll run into problems here and there, but you went on the cheaper side and you'll have to cope with it.
It's unrealistic to expect to buy a laser and spend under $3k. I'd budget for at least $5k.
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