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    Tell your wife that you love her...

    I haven't had much time or even interest in woodworking recently. One Saturday in mid April my wife of 34 years began complaining about our old mattress becoming worn out and uncomfortable. We headed straight to town and bought a new set. A week later, her back still ached, and she began having difficulty relieving her bladder. X-rays and CT-scan revealed what they thought was non-malignant fibroids. They immediately scheduled her for surgery that day for a complete hysterectomy. I knew it wasn't good when they called me in to a private consultation room to talk to the surgeon after the surgery. It is cancer. Not only is it cancer, but it is a very rare, and very aggressive type. So rare in fact that the local GYN surgeon had only seen one other case in his 30 years of practice. We were immediately referred to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester Minnesota. Their plan was to do three rounds of chemo, then analyze it's effect on the tumor to determine if it is operable or not. We did our first round of chemo there in Rochester, then the two follow-up rounds back at home here in Northern MN. Yesterday's CT-scan results were not the news we wanted to hear. The chemo has had little or no effect on the tumor. So it is back to the Mayo this next week. We're hoping the local Drs. either read the scan wrong, or that the Mayo has a plan "B". My wife is my everything, I can't imagine life without her. Hug and kiss yours, and tell her that you love her as often as you can.

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    Sorry to hear about it. Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. DB
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    My prayers will include you both too.

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    You and your wife will be in my thoughts and prayers. Keep us posted!

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    God bless you both, Matt. I will go follow your orders.
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    You guys are in our thoughts and prayers Matt.

    I know what you mean about your wife being your everything. Same for me. Same for a lot of us I'm sure.

    PHM

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    You will be in my prayers.
    Paul

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    You and your wife will be in our prayers. I too have a wonderful supportive wife and would be lost without her.

    God bless and keep you.

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    These life changing situations are so sad. I will include both of you in my prayers. All my hopes that she will be treated with success. May you stand strong, stay positive, and be supportive.

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    Matt,

    Next month it will be 22 years since my wife was diagnosed of a rare and deadly form of cancer. Her doctor recommended she go to University of Washington Medical Center in Seattle for surgery. She did and survives today. We celebrated our 44th anniversary last December. I have been in your position.

    My thoughts and prayers for your wife, you, your family and your wife's medical team!
    Ken

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    That's really sad. My prayers are out to you.

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    I'm very sorry to hear of your wife's health issue. I hope the docs can find a way to help her.

    Mike
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    Matt , please tell your wife that I will be praying for the family

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    Thank you everyone, your thoughts and prayers mean a lot to me.

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    So sorry to hear about your wife Matt. The Mayo clinic in Rochester is the right place to be and I wish your wife the very best. My daughter and son-in-law both work there and may well be involved in your wife's diagnosis. Some of the best experts in the world are there and if treatment is possible they will find it.
    Best Regards,

    Gordon

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