I too use BLO to pop the grain of a project. I don't flood it on and let it soak in... I wipe it on liberally and wipe it off within a few minutes, it only needs to wet the wood, not soak in as you would with an oil/varnish blend finish. I usually seal it in after a day or two with shellac.
Scott
Finishing is an 'Art & a Science'. Actually, it is a process. You must understand the properties and tendencies of the finish you are using. You must know the proper steps and techniques, then you must execute them properly.