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Doug Duffield
04-30-2018, 4:39 PM
I have spent the last month in Texas helping my daughter-in-law settle things after my son’s death. She is from Brazil and has a hard time understanding legal forms, but then don’t we all! She asked me to help her kids build a box for my son’s ashes. The selection of tools that were in the garage left much to be desired for a woodworker, so I used a hand saw and sharpened a couple of chisels and went to work.

The box is constructed with dove tails and the oldest child whacked the wood out after I cut the sides of the tails. His wife wanted “Jason is home” engraved on the box, but I didn’t have any tools that would work on oak, so I bent wire into the words, soldered and painted them black. All in all I think it came out fairly good. His wife showed the box to a friend and she asked me to build one for her sister’s ashes.

I carved a daisy from basswood I inlayed it in oak, trimmed it with cedar and stained it. The finish on both boxes is Danish oil.

Nicholas Lawrence
05-01-2018, 7:09 AM
I think your son would be pleased that you were able to do that for him, and that his children were able to help.

Frederick Skelly
05-01-2018, 7:20 AM
That's a beautiful tribute to your son Doug. I love that you and his children did it together, in his garage using some of his tools. I love the way you improvised the lettering. I do not think you could have made a more appropriate memorial with a shop full of the best tools on earth.

I'm deeply sorry for your loss.
Fred

Doug Duffield
05-01-2018, 8:22 AM
Thank you for your sympathy and comments. It was a good way to grieve the loss of our son and for the children also.

al heitz
05-03-2018, 11:28 PM
Special ...... extra special !!!

Bill Dufour
05-20-2018, 6:20 PM
Good job with deep meaning
Bill D.
FYI: Costco sells coffins and ash boxes/urns that might be a place to get ideas with no salesmen pressuring you.