I am making a tabletop out of red oak and I want a smooth surface so my plan is to use a wood filler. Because of some ebonized detailing in the base and along the table edge, I want the pores to appear like black flecks within the walnut colored stain I will use for the top. I'm wondering what is the best way to pull this off.
I have a Parks water-based wood filler that came tinted for red oak. I also have a vial of black Mixol dye, as well as some black Varathane wood stain. I tried tinting the filler with the Mixol and used it on a sample piece, but it turned out more gray than black. I then tried tinting the filler with the black stain to see what that would do, but it's still not what I want, and I'm concerned about mixing an oil-based stain with a water-based filler for one, and worrying about staining the table top with the black stain/filler for the other. So, to keep that staining from happening, I'm thinking of first filling the pores (once I figure out the right formula), applying 3 coats of Seal Coat, sanding it all down to bare wood, and then, with the pores filled and levelled, staining the top a walnut color and finishing it all off with a water based urethane.
But since this is my first time trying this, I'm wondering if there is something I'm not seeing that would lead to failure. Or maybe there is a simpler way to get the look I want. Has anyone tried this before and what was the method you used?